How can you make things interesting in a long distance relationship? Well, the problem is that you can’t follow a pattern in order to spice things up. You can’t do something repetitively that will guarantee “success” because there is no success.
Thanks to evolution in technology, we now have access to plenty of tools for the purpose of communication such as smartphones, webcams, instant messenger etc. It’s easier to deal with the distance these days than it was 20 years ago.
Here is my long distance relationship advice that will help you deal with some of the issues.
- If we draw the line, our sexual nature isn’t that complicated. For that reason we just need a couple of “stimulants” and our partners will maintain their sexual interest in us. Using sexual stress releases like games, voice chat, text messaging, video chat etc, are key in maintaining that primal basis any relationship needs.
- Don’t linger too much in the “familiar zone”. A lot of people have the wrong impression that they need to always be in that zone where they are everything for their partners. Don’t be afraid to be different than your partner. This is how you spice things up. And don’t forget to play. Several interesting questions to ask a guy or a girl can do wonders for your relationship at this stage.
- Don’t stop your individual growth. The shortest path to kill a relationship is to stop evolving on your own path. Whatever you do in your normal life just don't stop doing it. That is the source of your life and of your sexual energy. In this way you will spice things up without even planning on doing so because you are always doing something new.
It’s not easy to have that connection with your partner if there is distance between you two, but is surely not impossible. Many people find that if they don't concentrate on just the sexual aspect of relationships things work out a lot better in the long run and are much less frustrating. Libido in women is not all about sexual desire after all. Making a long distance relationship work has a lot do with communication - open, honest communication.